Love Story
We’ve been talking about love a lot lately. Last week, a friend of mine from college, Amy, came to teach my ESOL class as a guest, one of the requirements of the TESOL certificate she is completing along with her MA in Composition. The main thrust of her lesson was having our group read a short story together. She eased us into the story with a series of statements about love that we could agree or disagree with and give explanations for our responses. “Every person has a pre-selected soul mate,” read one. “Love is enough to make a relationship work,” was another. “It is important for people in a romantic relationship to share the same cultural history,” generated the most conversation. We all pretty much agreed on our answers to the first two statements. Yuwei spoke about his own relationship with his wife, Ying, to explain his opinion. “We were attracted to each other at first, yes,” he began, “but over time, we built trust and respect. The relationsh...